A Bicultural Balance: Raised in a Chinese-Nigerian Household
Growing up in a mixed Chinese-Nigerian household, I didn't fully grasp my heritage until my early twenties. That changed when a magazine asked me to write an article titled "A Bicultural Balance: Raised in a Chinese-Nigerian Household — a Chinese-African Master's Juggling Two Cultures." Writing it forced me to finally ask: Who am I, culturally?
People often ask, "Do you identify more as Chinese or Nigerian?" My honest answer: it depends on the context. That's not avoidance — it's the reality of living between two worlds. I don't have to choose; I get to embody both.
I love both cuisines. My Chinese top three: egg fried rice, braised chicken, sizzling beef with onions. My Nigerian top three: plantain, Jollof rice with chicken, and savory Egusi with Eba or pounded yam. In health and wellness, Chinese culture takes the lead — drinking warm water is second nature, and I sometimes boil apples, pears with goji berries, hawthorns and dates. With my own creativity, I now add cinnamon for enhanced flavour.
In language and humor, Nigerian Pidgin English is genuinely fun and full of life. The rhythm, the wit, the way people stretch a word for effect — it always makes me laugh. Nigeria is wonderfully multi-ethnic, and Pidgin acts as a cultural glue, bringing everyone together regardless of tribe or status. It's a masterclass in how language builds bridges.
My master's degree in the UK, my years within Beijing's international community, and my travels exposed me to many cultures. Through those experiences, I came to understand that there are cultures we are born into — biological and family heritage — and cultures we grow into through the places we live, the people we meet, and the environments we work in. Today, I am comfortable integrating what I love from Chinese, Nigerian, Western, and Middle Eastern cultures. Call it "Annie's Culture."
That's why I've decided to invest more of myself in building bridges — starting with China and Nigeria. I've noticed something interesting: when I'm in Nigeria, I naturally find myself protecting China's image; when I'm in China, I protect Nigeria's. Despite growing trade between the two countries, there remains a need for greater mutual understanding. Through my work and lived experience, I want to help change that — one conversation, one project, one moment of genuine understanding at a time.

